“I want love,” you say with a faint sense of hope and guarded optimism. Everyone wants, needs, and relishes love. And it shows up only when we’re ready. Sure something resembling love appears even when we aren’t ready, but is it real? We’re not talking about just any situation here… we are talking about true satisfying love. How to set the stage for love when all we want is to attract new love, true love. However, first things first. You need to take care of you, only then will everything else fall into place. The right place, the right time, the right person harmoniously in tune with the right you.
You are who you attract, and you attract who you are. We only attract what’s in agreement and in harmony with the way we think, feel, and how we project this image to others. If we attract who we don’t want or who isn’t our type, then we have to look closely at ourselves and ask why. The vibes we send out will be matched exactly with where we’re at.
Your task is not to seek love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.
To attract someone better, we have to first be better. And to be a better version, we have to not only work on who we are but change the way we view love. When we shift our perception of acceptance, alter our behavior, reframe our thinking, and cast a different light on emotions, we enter a metamorphosis, changing things from not good to great. Just by revamping our thought patterns alone can shift our reality, whereby we can then step into a healthier version of who we are, so we can attract true love.
HOW TO SET THE STAGE FOR LOVE WHEN WE DON’T KNOW WHERE TO BEGIN
I love you not because of what you have, but because of who you are.
We have to transform the whole kit and caboodle before we can see the change we desire to experience. Some of us have no problems where the affair of the heart is concerned. However, many of us, have to work on who it is we are, before we get to experience something amazing. We only have ourselves to blame, because we are the ones holding ourselves back.
In the love department, you have the power to set the stage for true love. First, by working on yourself internally. And this won’t be easy. It’s hard to change, becoming who it is we want to attract, while keeping our sense of self intact.
When we change the way we view love and alter how we see ourselves, something changes within. If we are careful to present an image in line with the type of person we are seeking to attract, only then will we succeed in attracting the one. When we are healthy, vibrant, and stable, then we can attract a beneficial, resonant, and secure love. New love in sync with the same qualities we project.
There is my heart, and then there is you, and I’m not sure there is a difference.
If we aren’t in a healthy space internally, we will not attract a healthy relationship. Not only missing out on new love, but true authentic, healthy love. But problems arise because we’re conditioned to repeat past patterns. If we don’t break these unhealthy patterns, we have a vibe that will set the stage to attract something within the same vibe, within the same frequency. This is when sadness is the drawing-card for those who are sad, and happiness will usher in those who are happy.
OUR HEART KNOWS
We know all this… right? When a heart’s engaged, it knows. It hits us where it hurts the most… right in our solar plexus. We know when something’s right or when it’s oh so wrong. If we know, then why do we get trapped doing the wrong things, stuck in the wrong places, attracting no one, or worse… attracting the wrong people?