Want to Usher in a New Hello, Time for a Meaningful Life Change

There are those who have unreasonable expectations this I know because I was once that person who always expected someone to present their best self. The dream version of what I viewed as the ideal character. But that isn’t how life works. We don’t always reach someone’s expectations. Nor do others meet ours. Secrets out, we don’t even satisfy our own. No one is perfect. The trouble arises when refusing to accept others for who they are and when others refuse to accept who we are. One way or another, we eventually have it all figured out. We determine the best direction along with who will join us for the ride. To stay or go is a choice we all make especially when it pertains to matters of the heart. How do we identify who stays in our lives and who goes? Perhaps time will answer that question.

TIME TO CHOOSE WISELY

It begins with how we view the time we have left. Our time is special and the way we spend it is the key. We know we should spend this remaining time with those who uplift our spirit. However, for whatever reason, we don’t. Regrettably, we end up in those unsettling face-offs, facing unpleasant behaviors and cold responses. Perhaps it’s because we fail to meet someone’s idealized view of who we should be and fall short of this romanticized vision. Besides, we don’t always project what others want to see. Nor do we mirror someone’s idealization of how we should or shouldn’t act, how we should or shouldn’t look, and what we should or shouldn’t say. These types of relationships are frustrating, to say the least, and are nothing more than mere entanglements, which cause more harm than good for all involved. It’s time to make meaningful life changes.

BELIEVE YOU DESERVE BETTER

If you can’t accept someone for who they are and if they can’t accept you for who you are, then it’s time to mosey along. It won’t be easy saying goodbye to dysfunctional interactions but necessary if you want to enjoy a good life. The best way to deal with the repeat offenders who do nothing but summon conflict is to move on. This step is essential and perhaps the only way to get your point across, that being, you deserve better. After all is said and done, it comes down to freedom, the freedom to choose your rightful path and select whom you want to share the journey with. Freewill to begin again, to start something new only this time with those who are careful with your heart.

When you free yourself from incompatibility you attract new possibilities. Opportunities always point us in the right direction and that leads to prospective harmonious interactions. The time has come to take back your life by bidding farewell to this chapter. It’s time for a brand-new story. Select a book with a better ending that only a final goodbye can usher in. Who knows, that may just be… a new hello.