Leaving one relationship for another may be a good idea that wasn’t such a great idea after all. If a heart is no longer in a relationship, it’s difficult to stay. The path to letting go may yield to positive results especially when it comes to joy and wish-fulfillment. Happiness will only surface once we free ourselves from an emotional burden. Is it possible for love to find its way?
There we were, two friends, enjoying lemonade on a hot, humid summer day, reminiscing of days gone by. The light breeze carried the scent of coconut oil as we shared stories about what relationships worked and why some didn’t. Some stories we openly shared and rolled in laughter. Other stories we kept secretly to ourselves. However, what you believe to be secret may sometimes be detected. Perhaps, it was the glint in your eyes or a far off distant gaze that gave it away. She just knew. I knew she knew. We both knew that once upon a time, there were two people who headed in different directions. Years later, what happened still left you wondering, what if…
When you shut the door to a relationship, take the time to heal, to discover who you are first before jumping into another relationship. In all likelihood this is the only way to attract someone better suited. This is where we right the wrong in our lives and resolve to move into a calm acceptance. When we accept what happened, happened for a reason. Perhaps it was more like, it took place because we allowed it to. Be willing to accept your role and the part you permitted someone else to play.
THE PATH TO LETTING GO ISN’T THE END, IT’S A NEW BEGINNING
We keep ourselves so tied up in regretting the past and fearing the future that we don’t have any energy left to figure out who we are and what we want to create right now.
When we take responsibility for our lives, we gain a new perspective and attain self-confidence. It’s when we love who we are and believe in ourselves that we can then move away from the heartache. Heartache isn’t a bad thing, from heartbreak we learn. We grow. We learn to grow.
Sometimes people come into your life just to teach you how to let go.
When love is lost, should we stay or should we go? Whenever passionate about something or someone, we stand up for ourselves, our cause, our wishes, and our dreams. We strongly believe in our journey, and our passion gives us the strength to move in a new direction. We stand in truth and for what’s right. Knowing true love is a foundation that will stand the test of time.
When enlightened, we secretly learn love’s lessons, and find the answers we seek. And it is these answers that not only shed light on the situation we’re entangled in, but it reveals the path we should take. Sometimes it’s the path to letting go.
The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you cannot move forward.
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