Live the Life You Aspire to Lead | Here’s What You Must Do

What does it take to have a successful relationship, a successful career, a successful life? We are inundated with too much. Too much information, too many options, too much distraction. The key is focus. Focus on what you should be doing. Rather than wait for something to happen, make it happen. Focus on one element, one aspect, and one facet at a time until you live the life you are aspired to lead.

I managed so many ventures, creative projects that some of them ended up on the shelf, incomplete. Juggling too much stuff at once can lead to system overload. Until eventually, you end up dropping something important. As I learned the hard way, when my manuscripts were supposed to be published a year ago. Now 2019, come tide or high water these books will launch… with or without me. For some reason everything is ready to go… except me. What does that mean? Maybe, just maybe, it’s in the timing. It will be ready when you are. 

ARE YOU READY AND WILLING TO LIVE YOUR DREAM?

A friend once said, “I’m so ready for love. Where is he?” “That depends,” I answered. “On what?” she asked. “On you,” I replied. You see, it’s simple, yet we tend to complicate everything. Why is that? The reason we complicate matters, situations, circumstances is that we may not be as ready as we believe we are. Ready to explore, ready to initiate, ready to launch. Part of us is saying yes whereas another side of us is saying no… wait. There’s contradiction in the way you are thinking, behaving, and acting. Perhaps giving out the wrong signals. It’s when you play hard to get and the one you played this game with, moved on. They moved on to another qualified candidate. They moved on and into the arms of someone else, who was ready. Then you wonder, and say something like, “Wait… what just happened here?”

LIVE LIFE

To attract, to manifest, you must be in control of how you think. Seriously, sometimes we think we know, when we don’t. We think we know what we want, but don’t. We want something then we push it away. We love someone then we end up saying the wrong things or maybe doing what we believe to be right, wrong. Then you wait, wait for the phone to ring, wait for the letter to arrive, wait for the knock on the door. And when it doesn’t ring, arrive, or knock, disappointment sets in and you flounder and wonder… why. Why something didn’t work or why a relationship didn’t pan out the way you expected.

The problem is that we manage being stuck in a wrong frame of mind. We wallow in negativity, and think unhappy thoughts. What I should have done, could have done or would have, but didn’t. Could haves, would haves, and should haves just get us to where we don’t want to end up. In the wrong career, in a wrong relationship or alone and waiting for love and life to just happen.

Shift your focus, change direction, and transform your life. You have what it takes to get to a better place. Be a leader. Take command. Seize control of your life. Start initiating. In other words, stop waiting and start doing. Do something. Do anything. Oh, so you are doing something? Well then, just do something different. Who knows while engaged, involved, and occupied in something new or different, you may just captivate the life you aspire to live.